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David Barton's avatar

What a thought-provoking post 🙏🌿

Fliss's avatar

Thank you David

Caroline Mellor's avatar

Lovely set of reflections, Fliss. 🧡

Fliss's avatar

Thanks Caroline

Sebastian Black's avatar

This is a wonderfully fascinating article Fliss. And, as you say, opens so many questions. Your friend must be very strong and brave. I wonder if he has found a freedom, through his isolation, to know himself in a way that the rest of us can't reach. I hesitate to say this but perhaps busy life is white noise and a distraction from seeking answers within ones self. I think that your reference to Bhudist Monks taking themselves away is a good one. From what I have read about this, the silence and disengagement from the "white noise" is possibly a vital step on the path towards self discovery.

It's a very interesting question. Who are we really once we relieve ourselves of the coat of many faces that we use to navigate our lives.

Thank you for sharing this article and the deep thinking that comes with it.

Write Words's avatar

I'm off to see the film this evening and looking forward to it. I'll feed back something next week after I've had a chance to ponder over it. I'll also have a look at the link in your post. Enjoy the week ahead. ~A~

Sarah Thompson's avatar

Some great questions to ponder here, Fliss, thanks! I hope to go see The Odyssey soon as well, having had little to do with it since studying it in school/uni. I'm glad to know it felt like a good old-fashioned epic to you, as that's what I'm craving from it too.

Fliss's avatar

it ticked all my boxes. There has been online criticism of some of its accuracy and omissions but it does the job.

Louise Pitman's avatar

As I started to read this it began to remind me of the countless people I worked with as a probation officer, people for whom prison stripped back all they knew, all they were, usually all they had. Then you mentioned your friend. However it happens, choice or enforcement, taking time out is an important part of the process of becoming, I’m sure.

Fliss's avatar

Hi Louise, my friend has been failed by the prison system, entirely set up for failure and through it all somehow manages to stay sane and calm.